Wednesday, March 31, 2010

Trial Easter Egg Hunt

Today, we headed to Aunt Anh's and Josh's for a play date. I had been wanting to do an Easter egg hunt trial run before the real deal (and a little more low key compared to the potential madness of the other egg hunts) so I asked Anh if she would like to do one for the boys today. She was totally a great sport and said yes.

Of course, once we arrived, the boys wanted to play trains first. Soon it was time for lunch. We told the boys they had to eat a good lunch before we did the egg hunt. Got to love extortion!

As for hiding eggs, we couldn't very well let the boys stay inside while we hide. Yes, one of us could have stayed inside with them while the other hid them, but the boys couldn't wait to go outside. Moreover, we really didn't care about them seeing because then maybe they would find them better. So, Anh played with them on the swingset while I hid the eggs...basically in plain sight. Once I was done, it was time to release the hounds!

The boys were too too funny. They would see one egg and have to go after that one totally ignoring the other eggs that were closer to them or that were on the way to that egg. Then, they would just want to open the egg and forgot about the rest of the eggs left to still be found! But finally, after some coaxing, we told them to just keep putting the eggs in their basket. They were running all over the backyard, no rhyme or reason--just wherever they felt like finding eggs. And at different times, both boys sweetly helped the other find eggs and put them in their other one's basket!

Afterwards, they just plopped down, checked out their stashes, and played in the backyard. We let them have one piece of candy and play with some rubber balls and stickers. The pair of them did a great job on the egg hunt. Andrew seemed to get the hang of it after a year hiatus. They both seem to really have a good time. I would say it was a hit! Can't wait for Andrew to do it again!






















Sunday, March 28, 2010

Aunt Hoa & Uncle Quang

Aunt Hoa and Uncle Quang (who live in Dallas) came down to Houston today to see a very special Buddha statute on display in Bellaire. They were going to stay the night with Ngoai and Papa, so we drove to League City to see them. Aunt Hoa hasn't seen Andrew since he was like three months old. It's amazing how much he has changed since she saw him last. Andrew was shy at first, but sweetly came around very quickly...as he normally does.

We had to drive home for bed time (rather, to let Andrew fall asleep in the car for bed time). It was good to see them both even if for a short time.

I realize now that I hadn't posted pictures from when Aunt Hoa first met Andrew back in March of 2008...over two years ago!! Still amazes me (and saddens me a little too) seeing how Andrew has grown from a baby to a little boy.





Saturday, March 27, 2010

Belinda's Baby Shower

This afternoon, Aunt Monica and I hosted a baby shower for Aunt Belinda along with Marisa who unfortunately wasn't able to fly in from New Mexico. Daddy took Andrew for a ride on the Metro Rail and then to the zoo in the morning so Monica and I could prep for the party. They came home for lunch and naps while we put the final touches on everything. I have to say I was impressed--Monica and I were totally ready before the party began. Props to us for being so on top of things!

After Andrew awoke, he and Daddy hung out a little bit with Aunt Bee and Mrs. Woo. He was sweet. I think he knew a party was going on and was assuming it was for him. But he didn't put up too much of a fuss when Daddy took him for a bus ride to the Galleria where they walked around. Daddy said Andrew loved the bus ride and was really good on both outings, which makes Mommy feel very proud and a little less guilty!! Thanks, Daddy!! You're the best, babe!

As for the shower, we had a great time! Everyone seemed to have a good time and enjoy themselves. It was nice seeing some people that I hadn't seen in a while and catch up with them. And it was a treat getting to meet some more of Bee's friends that I had heard so much about.

All in all, it was a huge success! We were thrilled we could do this for Belinda since she's such a dear dear friend who we love very much! We can't wait for the Woo Lin Twins to make their debut!

I took so many pictures, but below are a few of my faves.

The invitation:















One of the games was to guess how many apple sours were in the jar:


















One of the two diaper cakes:


















Favor bags for the guests filled with two jars filled with apple sour and sweet pea bath salts:















Andrew gives Aunt Bee a hug:


















Aunt Monica, Aunt Belinda, and Mommy:













The food spread:













Guests:













Aunt Marie and Aunt Monica:













Another game was to guess the circumference of Aunt Belinda's waist:













Belinda's mom was the winner:













The third game was to name some famous brothers:













Aunt Bee and Aunt Monica:













The cakes--one was chocolate and the other was strawberries and cream:













Aunt Bee and Aunt Thi:













Aunt Belinda and some of her friends:

Thursday, March 25, 2010

Play Date at Palmer's

Mrs. Jenny and Palmer invited us over to their house this morning for a play date along with Mrs. Gina and Andrew. The boys had a great time playing with all of Palmer's toys (including his train table which Andrew spent most of his time at) which he was great about sharing!! They also enjoyed drawing and coloring on Palmer's activity table (Andrew just wanted to draw trains of course!) I am glad to report that Andrew played very well with both boys. He tried to swipe a few times, but after some prodding from Mommy, he relented fairly quickly! Whew!

Mrs. Jenny was sweet to serve us lunch; and all the boys ate so well. Andrew mostly enjoyed the fruit and sliced cheese! The boys played some more after lunch, but then, it was time to head home for naps. I would have bet the house that Andrew would fall asleep on the car ride home; and I would have lost!! But he was falling asleep on my shoulder as I carried him upstairs!

We had such a nice time this morning. Andrew enjoyed playing with his friends as much as I enjoyed hanging out with Jenny and Palmer! Thanks for a great morning!




Wednesday, March 24, 2010

Happy 25th Month Birthday!

Another month has come and gone. Here is my rundown of what Andrew has been doing this past month.

In regards for playing, Andrew is really into train signal and tracks. He says "ning, ning, ning" for the railroad crossings. He also loves tents. Daddy is so good about making him tents out of blankets and pillows. As for favorite shows as of recent, Andrew has been watching Dora the Explorer's "Choo Choo" episode and Mickey Mouse Clubhouse Choo Choo Express. He totally loves the Choo Choo Boogie song even making me play it several times consecutively in the car too!

Another sign that my baby is growing up is that he is great about playing by himself. He can just lay on the floor and play with his toys or playing on his train table. It has helped immensely when Mommy is trying to tidy up or cook dinner!! Eventually though, he will remember that he isn't alone and come ask us to play with him. I do find it very beneficial for him to have independent play and will just sit and watch him act out things. He does have a very good imagination and has gotten so good at pretending.

One other thing that Andrew is big into lately is coloring and drawing. We draw on paper, but usually more so on his Magna Doodle. He loves for me to draws trains (including the Houston Metro Rail) and other vehicles (buses, garbage trucks and cement mixers). I am definitely not the best artist by any stretch of the imagination, but I have definitely improved my skills. It's bound to happen when you draw a million or so trains a day!! Andrew gives me a lot of latitude too!! My drawing will remotely look like whatever it is supposed to be; and he will still give me credit. Thank goodness he has a good imagination!! He will also dictate that he wants a back (i.e., a tender) and a caboose. But Andrew will take his turn as an artist too. He loves to draw people in his vehicles. He is typically always drawn in as the driver. Mommy, Daddy, Papa and Ngoai are his usual passengers. He can also draw back to trains (as a scribble) and circles.

Andrew has been working on his alphabet and numbers. He counts to three now, but loves to say "two" when he sees a "match". He loves to point out matches or pairs. Usually it is two trains or two trucks, but sometimes it is two of the same color item. We have also been working on teaching him colors. He knows blue and red so far. For a while, everything was blue.

We have also been trying to teach Andrew relationships. The ones we work on most are Mommy's and Daddy's mommies and daddies. Sometimes, he gets the right answer, but sometimes he doesn't. At first, I would ask him "Who is Mama's Mama?" He would answer, "Mama." And the same for Daddy's Daddy. But how he will sometimes say the right person. He doesn't get brothers and sisters yet, but we will continue to work on it with him.

Andrew's speech hasn't progressed where we would like it, but we have definitely made progress! We have been going to speech therapy since mid-February {I plan to blog about this in greater detail later}. Andrew can say many more words, but we are so happy that he can say words comprised of different syllables, such as "uh oh", "metro", and "tunnel." Andrew is more willing to try to repeat sounds and words, so we know that his speech is only going to get better. We hope that we have reached the point where his speech will come together.

Andrew is big into routine, especially in the evening. He knows bath time follows dinner. Then, after bath, we get our pajamas on. Usually, Andrew will run to his room and open up his drawer to get his socks. Sometimes, he doesn't want to wear a certain pair and won't relent until he finds one he likes. Then, we play a little and read books. Sometimes, we mix it up if he wants to do puzzles or eat a night night snack. Then, when it's time for bed, we say prayers and he lays in his bed. Mommy and/or Daddy will then sit in the hallway until he falls asleep. He will usually come out a few times with stall tactics like giving kisses, hugs, and knuckles.

Routine can also be a bad thing especially when Andrew's memory can be pretty impressive when he wants it to be. A few times like after surgery or when he's sick, we have allowed him to watch a show while in our bed. And every now and then, he will lay down in our bed and ask us for a show (usually Dora the Explorer). He tends to think that if we let him do it once or twice, that means it is part of the routine versus a special exception. But thankfully, we can usually talk him out of it.

Something that we started recently is that right before bath time, we will try to get Andrew to sit on toilet and go pee. Usually, he will sit there for a little bit, then say he wants to stand. And then after a while, he gives up and is ready for bath. And more often times than not, the little punk will pee in the bath!! Hopefully, he will become more receptive and able to use the toilet.

And it's not anything new that Andrew can be manipulative at times, but we have seen pretty obvious attempts as of late. For example, if I am putting him to bed, he will cry for Daddy; but if Daddy is putting him to bed, he will cry for Mommy just to stall bed time!! He also does this with who takes him a bath. Or maybe he just likes to change his mind and keep us on our toes. Either way, he is still a little rascal!!

Drew's taste buds haven't changed much in the past month. He still loves his mac and cheese and pizza. He is really into lollipops especially after doctor appointments. He will say "pop" after every doctor we go to even if they don't offer any. But there is no fooling him in that our pediatrician's office and speech therapist both have stashes that he is allowed to partake in once we are done with our appointment. Drew is totally into taking his Flintstone gummy vitamins. Some mornings, he will walk up to the drawer grabbing the bottle and bringing it to me for me to open.

Andrew's been able to open the refrigerator for some time now (at least a few months), but now, he does it much more often and tries to get whatever he wants. He loves to grab his sippy cup of milk, but he also likes to grab his yogurt too. Then, there are times where he isn't reaching for something for him, but will just try to get whatever he feels like. Not fun!! He does the same for the pantry. He loves to get his snacks and sometimes, paper plates and bowls.

Drew is also getting much better about putting on and taking off his clothes. Taking off his pants isn't a problem (with the exception of his belt), but his shirt is a little more difficult with his arms. And speaking of his belt, to say that Andrew loves his new leather belt is putting it mildy. The kid wants to wear it everyday even if his pants fit and he doesn't need it. He also gives me a questioning look when there are no belt loops, but thankfully, he doesn't protest. Drew will stick out his hips and say "match" to Mommy's or Daddy's belt. He is so funny about it!!

Our little guy has definitely hit his terrible 2s. He will throw temper tantrums whenever the mood fancies him. Sometimes, it for something legit like when we don't let him do something he's not supposed to (climb on the table), but others, it is so trivial like his train went off the track (even though he knows how to fix it). But thankfully, they don't last too long. I will sometimes try to get him to stop crying by putting my pointer finger to my lips telling him to be quiet. I love it because he will do it too but still be crying. It's very endearing that he's trying.

But on the other side, we have also seen a more caring side of Andrew who always wants to make sure that everyone is taken care usually at the dining table. He wants everyone to have a plate, napkin, or food. He has even grabbed pizza out of the box and put it on whoever's plate that is empty. He is mostly concerned about Papa....Papa is always tended to first. It's very, very sweet; and this Mommy couldn't be happier to see my baby be so caring. But it's hard too because he doesn't understand why people wouldn't want him touching his food!!

Just a little funny anecdote about Andrew that's been happening this last month. For a while now, I will occasionally ask Andrew if he wants Mommy to have a baby or if he wants a baby in Mommy's tummy (since so many of our friends are expecting). Andrew at first said "no" all the time. But lately, he has been answering "yeah". Sweet!! But sometimes he gets smart ands says, "No. Drew. Back." as in for him to carry the baby on his back rather than Mommy in her tummy. A few times, he has retorted, "Daddy!" Only if Daddy could carry the baby! Wouldn't that be a sight!?

I leave you with a couple of pictures from today of Andrew on his Magna Doodle. Happy Birthday, my little boy! It's been another great month! And we can't wait for what is in store for us next! We love you so very much!



Trains and More Trains with Josh

Anh had texted me about hanging out today. We talked about the Children's Museum and the zoo, but we decided that we would go ride the Hermann Park train since both boys hadn't ridden it in a while and they adore it. We even talked about how the train was the first time we had seen each other with kids and talked about getting together for play dates. That was the start of a beautiful friendship!!

It wasn't raining when we had decided on riding the train, but it started to sprinkle just a tad as we drove up!! The train was still running so we bought an all day pass and rode the train twice. Afterwards, Josh said he wanted to come to our house to play trains. Sounded like a great plan as any to Anh and me so that's what we did.

The boys played really well together. There were some instances of competitiveness, but we resolved it by telling the boys they could take turns with the trains. They would get to play with it for five minutes and then after which, they would have to give it up. And it worked like a charm. Sometimes, these kids can be reasoned with! Hooray!!

But in all seriousness, I love that Andrew is growing up and learning how to play with his friends and just along side them. And at times, he can be somewhat agreeable to sharing; and then, there are some other times where he is offering to share. Of course, there are those other times where he still swipes or doesn't want to share putting up a fight. At least now, sometimes, we can reason with him to share. He still has a lot to learn in the world of playing with others, but there is definite progress and growth.

I also love that Andrew is really starting to form real bonds with other kids. He really seems to like his little group of friends and their moms (and some of the dads). It's so sweet when he asks for one of his little friends as if he misses them.










Tuesday, March 23, 2010

Extended Play Date

This morning, we met up with our friends at the zoo. The kids had a blast and were really cute with one another. I really think that the more Andrew sees them, he really gets more attached to and enjoys playing with them. And he's very sweet to Aunts Linda, Marie, and Thi! We visited our usual suspects and checked out the two new two lionesses. The kids enjoyed the petting zoo and the merry-go-round. Towards the end of the ride, I was happy when Andrew said he wanted to actually ride an animal (I think it was the armadillo) versus the chariot that he normally rides.

Before we knew it, it was lunch time so we invited everyone back to our place for pizza for an extended play date. The kids had fun playing and coloring while the moms had fun chatting. Sadly, nap time was upon us and we had to go our separate ways. Andrew and Mommy can't wait until the next time we do this again!